Wow, this is one of my favourites of yours, Walkaboutsverse! So true. I sympathise *completely*. *Completely*, I say:

From One Lover to Free Lover to Fee Lover,

    For children's sakes, let's fashion back to One Lover:

In public-life there are - guess what - women and men;

    Thus, upbringing's best by a woman and a man -

Not by one or two men, or one or two women,

    And not in a tug-of-war of women and men.