Sorry to come so late to this thread Kendall, but you have my deepest symapthy and best wishes as this part of your brother's life draws to a close.

In the ending days and hours of my closest friend's life we sat together in comfortable silence, the presence of the other was enough for each one. I will remember and value those days long past my own time.

"Sometimes the best sort of love can wash away the pain
And the best kind of answer has no sound."
                                 .......Peter Himmelman

Spaw