Well, despite what Willie-O says, I didn't turn into the dreaded "R" word when my kids passed into teendom; not sure nay of us would've survived. I just was really clear about things; any experimenting they did, they did at home, where I knew they were safe. Besides that, there wasn't much they could do that would shock ole mom and dad, as we'd already done most of it and they knew it.**BG**Kelida, beautiful name. Welcome to the Mudcat.
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