Well, I found out all about this trip or yours to late to give you advice, and as you are waiting until you get a proposal and more, she has to give ya a ring... there is little this Pavee piper can avise you to take or leave behind, ol Shem. However, I do think if you find a sweetie to buy YOU a ring, you found the ol beor for a shem worth all the gelt her da askes for her. Good luck raising the bride price, and glad your back safe,
Larry