It's not only college women. I bet that unless steps have been taken in most middle schools in America that a whole bunch of 13 year olds are hit with that phrase. It will be new to many of them. I think most college women at Rutgers can probably handle themselves when they hear a phrase like that, at least I hope so...and should cut off communication with any man or woman who utters it..but a 12 year old? Think it isn't happening? mg