Everybody's idea of God is different and perhaps if you think of a Higher Being instead you may be more able to trust that being.

I have a book called "Every Day a Better Way". It gives a quote and more for each day of the year. It was written, I think, to help people cope with loved ones who have addiction problems and the idea is that you hand the care of that person to a Higher Being. It's one way of coping with it all and standing back from the situation. For many people that Higher Being will be God but for others it won't be. If you are handing the care of a loved one to a Higher Being obviously you would trust that being.

It doesn't answer your question, I know that.