erhaps our problem with civility is that too many people , like homeless,need to have it defined for them. Surely we do not have remind anyone that civility is to treat people with respect. Someone who can only address others by using the limited language of insult and childishness does not understand the concept of treating others with civility. Why is it that much disagreement between people devolves into a round of stupid remarks at sophmoric language. Most adults find this boring.