I never quite understand why anyone would leave because they don't like a couple of other members....especially since the worst offenses ARE now being deleted & edited. If I really can't stand someone, I mostly ignore them. If this were all 'in person' and I had to physically avoid someone, it would make sense that if the 'offender' was allowed in, I might have to go....but in here it is relatively easy to ignore those I don't like without expecting management to censor them FOR me.

I have been here over 10 years, and the worst offenders are either gone or reformed...and I'm still here.

The place is what you make it...

The other place sounds interesting, but kinda like a 'gated community', which I would NOT enjoy living in.