'Totally traumatised' Well guest have you seen them? if not I don't think you are in any position to advise, and if you have seen them, maybe you are 'TD' Once you have seen TDL you too could be totally traumatised, shocked, stunned or amazed!!! It's certainly an experience you would not forget, now that can be either a good experience or the complete opposite. Counselling can be used for both sides of the coin as even a superlative experience can be just too much to take in in one go, as can the opposite experience, both can leave you totally traumatised. ;-))