Actually, Donuel, some people do seem to attract a lot of abuse from other people...and it's not due to any conscious intention on their part. I think it's due to more subtle things like their subliminal beliefs about themselves and about life. Or you could call it karma.

I attracted a great deal of abuse from other children when I was a youngster, for instance. I was not aware at the time that there were patterns in me that were setting me up for it.

I'm just speculating in a general sense, not saying that you are necessarily like that...but it might be a factor, I suppose...

The situation you describe with your neighbor is anything but pleasant. I hope you find a good way of dealing with it ASAP.