well - y'see, they are both in the discernment process for the priesthood, but from different dioceses, and planning to marry in a third diocese, and she is divorced, (which requires, as I understand it, permission of HIS bishop, HER bishop AND the bishop of the locale they will marry in) plus they are trying to get jobs near where she is going to be getting her docterate - which once they are ordained (last week for her, end o' the month for him) will require permission from their bishops, seperately from the permission of the bishops to marry, and ... well, it gets complicated.