Been here a good long while, as a Lurker, and here is a thought:
bbc, just don't get so up tight about so many things.....your pages, your policies, your gigs, your "Korean-ness", your Christianity, your Anti-BS ness, just take a major chill pill, girl, we all love you and what you do for the Mudcat. Grow up a little and realize it. Your pages are MARVELOUS, and contribute a lot; all of us realize that, and appreciate the time it takes, so just try to maintain on the retentive stuff. OK, hon?