abortion at any time and for any reason is the extremist position. There is no compromise in any abortion at any time for any reason.
If I am the one who says that abortion should be allowed in cases of rape or incest, and even encouraged in the case of the life of the mother, and would even be willing to bend if SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE was not pointing more toward viability becoming earlier and earlier (disproving earlier pro-choice assertions that it is not human life until after birth). In other words, my conditions for abortion allow for compromise.
It can get difficult understanding someone's position when they are not sure of it themselves.