Please explain this phenomenon to me: Why is it that a person must *ALWAYS* get nasty?

Ake, this has nothing to do with political correctness- do you truly mean that you don't see that?   As Amos said, it has to do with justice.

How do *YOU* define justice? Should I argue that a marriage down the street is detrimental to my marriage? Does a pair of teenagers who are expecting a child and are forced into a marriage that neither wants or is ready for negatively affect your marriage? In my opinion a better case as to marriage being a sham could be made in their case than with two same-sex adult people who love each other. Why aren't you burning up the streets protesting the teens' wedding?