I have read this thread through it's entirety. And although it is an emotive issue it is a discussion being held on a discussion board. I do not see the merit in using pm's in this discussion or any other where people disagree. Is everyone meant to hold the same opinion?

It hasn't degenerated into personal abuse and bearing in mind the subject it has stayed remarkably civilised. If it makes unpleasant reading for anyone they have the option not to read it?

Or is that too simple?

My personal opinion of the case is based on no factual knowledge and as such changes day to day. My only unchanging opinion is that children should never be left alone.