My crabby feeling has passed but I was a bit crabby for a while this evening when I heard that a very gentle Buddy of mine made a choice and trusted someone that my Buddy considered to be trustworthy and was under the impression that this person also cared for my buddy as a person only to end up being treated like shite. People can be real arseholes at times.
Better oot than in. Feels much better to post it here and let it go.
Thank you for the outlet Mudcat:)

Jude