Attaching the wages is exactly what the court told my daughter they would do; that is something she nor I want to see happen. I know he is really struggling to make ends meet and it would be much worse if he had to go find another job.

Mick, thank you. Intervention would be good, but I don't know of anybody who could or would do so.

I wish he understood and believed just how much we all love him. He got stuck in their troubles a few years back and has never moved forward, so he just doesn't believe that we could still love him and care about him. Maybe I'll try one more letter to him.

Thanks, folks. I really am okay about this...just needing to talk it through with my dear friends. Thanks a bunch,

kat