Ah, Mary, that's all right. Thanks, darlin'. And, thanks, Susan and TRUEBRIT and the rest of you.

My daughter has been careful, in fact I think they have both been careful around the twins, to not badmouth each other. Her new beau is very respectful about them and their relationship with their dad, too.

The twins really don't know me much and don't really like talking on the phone, but they do know they are loved and they and their parents have talked about it NOT having a thing to do with them, plus I sent them some good children's books about that, last year when they moved out.