I don't know Mary but I am sad to hear she is experiencing such misfortunes.   if anyone knows of anything specific that she needs or could use, please PM me. I would guess that she could use giftcards to various grocery stores, drugstores and general merchants. Those might help her and her caregivers deal with daily expenses.

Sometimes we in the USA can get these rather easily and for free just by filling a new prescription or transferring an old one to a new store such as Ralph's/Kroger, Riteaid, CVS, Longs Drugs, Target and Walgreens. I have a few $25 and $30 giftcards I could easily spare. If a friend of Mary's could PM me, I'd happily send her some along with some homemade CDs to maybe pick up her spirits.