It's incredible how a short phrase of music can catapult you straight back into some of the most amazing, traumatic, erotic or gut-wrenching moments of your life. One moment you're singing along, the next, you're a gibbering wreck in a soggy pile on the carpet.

The loss of someone you loved and shared a life with, can still hurt like it was only yesterday. Even after 33 years, I still feel the great hole in me that was filled by my brother.

LTS