I know my son has tried several different kinds of drugs, though I didn't know it at the time. I know he still does pot on occasion. Neither of my daughters have, though one does smoke. They never saw me use anything. I never did pot or anything else. Rog smokes. I'd read years ago that if a daughter sees her mother smoke and/or drink etc. she will most likely do the same. It was likewise for a son and father. Despite my son's experimenting, my kids have all done okay and I know they've been surrounded by drugs in school, etc. Good examples still count for something at home. I regret that I didn't keep Rog from smoking in front of them when they were young. FWIW, they are both trying to stop, now.