Greg B: "When questioned on
it the old bat that enforced this rule explained that pregnant girls
were a 'bad example.' I never had the nerve to ask her if she felt
like an 'accessory' to 'murder,' since she basically forced girls
who didn't want an unwanted pregnancy to ruin their lives to have
abortions...which she called 'murder.' I'd like to now"

I agree on this one. That's not the right way to do things. Once the girl got pregnant - for whatever reason - the only christian thing to do is suport her and the new human life growing in her, and to continue that support after the baby is born. That's a job for the whole of society, starting with the immediate family and working outwards in a ripple.