We are really quite scared to give him any cause for thinking it's us cos he'd come back at us for sure. It would be best to do something which looked like it could just be a chance happening.

Sorch, I've lost all faith in the law in this country. The authorities are so keen on doing people for stupid and unnecessary things they have no time or interest in real problems. I think the former are easier or something. And it's unfortunately true here these days that the law does more to protect perpetrators than victims.

Trouble with getting in touch with anyone who then has to get in touch with him is that he just totally ignores them. Mostly they try several times then give up. When we were going through the court action with him, the solicitor used to send him letters and received no response, even when he ended up having them hand-delivered. At this house and where he lives now, he won't answer the door if he's in.

Yes Rapaire, there's a sort of passageway between his house and ours downstairs...what we call an 'entry' here.

Love Lynne