A client not looking for change on his own election will not make good progress. Doing it for the spouse or the parent is a pure-dee set up for frustration -- there's no personal energy being invested no matter how cooperative and dutiful the person is. That's my opinion. Conversely an individual seeking to grow on his own election to do so will do a lot of the heavy lifting instinctively.
Especially if he feels he is is in a safe environment where he will not get told what to think or how to be, or have various enforcements and inhibitions run on his puir haid.

A