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Thread #107946   Message #2242814
Posted By: jacqui.c
23-Jan-08 - 10:17 AM
Thread Name: BS: Interesting Viewpoint on Abortion
Subject: RE: BS: Interesting Viewpoint on Abortion
If people had the bloody sense to take precautions, there would be much less demand for abortions.

Easy to say, Peace, but not always the easiest thing to do. I know from personal experience of being married to a man who wanted sex whenever HE wanted it, had no interest in taking precautions and kept me too short of money to be able to do it myself. Result - three pregnancies in four years - the last baby born when I was just short of 22. After that my doctor arranged for me to have an IUD fitted free.

When I first got pregnant at 17 - no sex education and the "If you love me" bit from the guy - I would have gone for an abortion, if it had been legal. As it happened I was lucky in life and things turned out well for me. That is not always the case.

I've seen a friend through the process and can quite understand her reasons for going ahead with it. She did not think that she could get pregnant then so precautions seemed unnecessary within a long term relationship.