Tom, if you wore frilly underwear, 'easy' would not be the first thought that sprung to mind....;)

I think it's basic human nature to only show what you are comfortable with, whether that be physical or spiritual, it's up to you. Personally, I know I can talk with friends in my house while in various states of undress (it gets plenty hot here) But I would die a sweltering death before I'd so much as unbutton a button while with my Nana at her garden club. Playing for the museum guild I'm liable to dress more conservatively than for just a gig at pub. But your basically gonna have to rely on the woman and her comfort levels. If she likes you, she'll lean a little closer, laugh a little lower, and show you a whole lot more.

~JenEllen