Whatever the size ... natural is best. I dated a man a few years ago who wore a toupee. I wouldn't have cared about the toupee, except that he didn't tell me, and in running my fingers through his hair, got my hand caught and pulled damn thing off. It destroyed the mood. Now, wouldn't it have been much better if he had told me he wore and toupee? Much the same feeling, I would imagine, when a man starts probing and happens on Kleenex or silicone pads. There's not much a bosomy woman can do except be natural! ... moonchild (who's measuring the straps of all her bras to be sure both are on the same level)