At my father' funeral (he was a musician) my wife and I led the service in singing "The Leaving Shanty".It's time to go now, Haul away down channel haul away down channel It's the sail-ing tide.
When my time is over Haul away for heaven Haul away for heaven It's the sail-ing tide
etc.
Worked for me
By my father's request a friend also sang How great thou art.
At my mother's we stcuk to hymns she had requested, but told lots fo good stores.
Richard