It's nice to think of others, but this will be YOUR WEDDING. It will only happen once.

Why don't you locate a number of songs that have meaning for the two of you and tell the jazz band to pick what they can work with. Find songs of hope, trust, fidelity or companionship - songs that will add meaning to your wedding.

Sure, 'The Old Rugged Cross' is an old standard, but it's about crucifixion. Is that the right theme for the bridal couple's launch into life together?