I think it might have made more sense if it was:

"when is sex worse than death?"

one possible answer to which could be "when you have no choice and you are too young and scared nd can't see a way out."

In that light perhaps some criticisms are a bit harsh.

I wasn't bothered about the title, having moved on once the discussion was underway, something which has been undone now that so many people have started complaining about the title.

I made points that I thought were useful and important to the discussion which I do not feel lose their value because somebody doesn't like the thread title.

This thread has indeed lost its way ... talk about self fulfilling prophecies.