Ron, I live in Central Virginia, the buckle on the Bible Belt, but in Charlottesville, theoretically a liberal enclave in the middle of it all. Yet the overwhelming majority of folks around here think sex is something that only 2 people, a man and a woman in fact, should do, and only if they are married, and only if they only have vaginal sex. Oral sex is still illegal, even between married couples. New Jersey may be better than that, but I'd bet that you still have an awful lot of people who think that sex should only be between married people who are of different genders.
And birth control should be covered by insurance - after all, Viagra is.