There are many thoughtful posts to this thread. I have certainly been lucky with the sessions in our area. What makes them good? As in all things it is a combination....a good leader/adjudicator/MC (call them what you will)...people who have good manners and a sense of belonging...people who respect the "etiquette" (or whatever you want to call it)...people who don't join in with other instruments unless asked!

I know we are privileged to have good sessions here...some of you truly suffer for your art!

However, despite the long faces on other threads...there are plenty of decent pubs, cafes and bars that would positively welcome some accoustic music once a month! Start your own...be the leader...run it to your rules!

BTW I am a little confused as to why you would sing a chorus song and not want people to join in the chorus? I quite understand the "joy" of people slowing the choruses down (!) but....

Best wishes,

Peter