Well Terri me dear, that's quite a time. The biggest joy of children is oft times the greatest sorrow. Every milestone is time of happiness jumbled together with the sadness of time. I have many childless friends who I know are happy in their lives. I always thought I would be one of those. But the moments shared as children grow are some of the happiest times of my life and now I wonder how anyone can live without them.

My son tristan is one of those "Special Kids"....Mentally retarded with multiple autistic tendencies. He's eight now and his progress inlearning is spectacular to the point that Karen and I are both awed and teary-eyed almost once a day anymore. My son Michael is having a lot of trouble learning the 3 R's but his artistic ability is simply unbelievable. The other day, two well respected artists were completely gassed at the work of this 7 year old that they consider a prodigy. I live each day thankful for each of them and the moments and milestones that sparkle the lives of Karen and I.

Here's big hug, a big smile, and a big crying towel,"Parent" sized all!!!

Spaw