For the record, Sedayne, it was 1997 I came back, not 1993, as there was almost 4 years here (learning to walk and talk with a NW accent, of course), before my parents emigratied, etc. And, for the record, Ruth, I'm NOT saying my family or you should repatriate - I am saying that, FROM NOW ON, the UN should agree to slow emigration down, and help genuine assylum-seekers to their NEAREST safe country. And I have heard a few overseas-born people now in England agree with this.