Alex: very much agree with previous poster. If you are playing too fast and too ornamented for your local session, rein yourself in a bit if you want to play along with others. Or if you too are wedded to your own style and don't want to change, fine, start your own and see who coalesces round you. That is how the tradition will be defined for the next generation, by what you and your friends make of it now.
Go to it!