"To cause to become less natural, especially to make less naive and more worldly. To make more complex or inclusive; refine."

Since you do not know me in any kind of a personal sense and have no insight as to how I "speak," then to cast aspersions on my vocabulary or use of "words" would put you in the same place as I, in re Bonnie's post ... you made a conclusion about me without "prior knowledge."

Your validation of my opinion is certainly appreciated.

moonchild