well what can I say , big hugs and love to Ciara and you both , tell her that, her Icelandic friend is thinkin of her .

Mick , one year ago my doughter went through difficult time when she
lost her boyfriend in a car accitent, and was goin to take her own live
but we manage to hold on to her and help her through it.

I gave her everthing I have from my heart so I know what you goin
through.

what you said about the children is true , tell them that you love them and give them a hug whenever you have a change , you may have them today and
not tomorrow as we say here in Iceland .

So again Mick be strong this is goin to take time .
Lots of love and hugs to all of you , and I am sorry to hear about the other girl , may god be with you all .

All the best Skarpi Iceland .