I'm so sorry to hear about this. Haven't managed to read all this thread yet as I diverted to Night Owl's and I've gotta take a break. I'm sure when I try to read this thread again tomorrow I'll find that there's a way of sending from the UK, maybe via FoM. 'Fraid it'll be after pay-day though.

Meanwhile I'm sending positive thoughts, love and hugs to Laurel. Also huge thanks to Max and the Mudcat community for being real.
Hil