" I work really really hard to make sure I won't ever be part of a system that pays its way to the front. "

It seems like your mind is set, regardless of whatever evidence can be shown to the contrary.   I admire your principles, but I hope you will keep in mind that principles need to be examined from time to time to insure that the reasoning is still valid.

Many artists hire outsiders for promotion for the simple reason that it frees them up from the tedious business that interferes with the creative side.   It takes time, resources and personal sacrifice to do "everything" that needs to be done.   Hiring someone who specializes in portions of that work is not selling out, and it is certainly NOT payola by any standard!!