Mick,During the past month I've met with a group of people from my church who've been through various stages/degrees of personal tragedy and loss. They would all echo Terri's thoughts that all any of us really has is "now". To that end, I offer these words: "Be with me my friend. Come! Share the journey. Though we know not our portion, rest safe, for it is. Laugh with me, cry with me, share my bewilder. For the time we're together, accept, love and live."
We'll be with you and your loved ones Mick, with the Spirit to guide us.
Dan