Peter, I just want to say thank you for putting so eloquently what many of us, male and female, feel and experience. Next time I'm having a 'white night' or a bad dose of the 'what-ifs' I will think of you at your kitchen table as I sit at mine half a world way. This site is amazing at pointing up and celebrating the differences between us, and that may impact on why BBC felt she had to go, but it also underlines the fact that where it matters, we are so alike.