open mike, astro et al:

I believe it would be good karma for us to follow the fine example of Terra's family and refrain from presuming anything about this accident, most especially assuming blame. Unless we were there investigating it, we are not in a position to say how it was caused (and Mick's mentioned that the investigators described it to him as a "perfect storm"--not as any one driver's fault). All we really know is that two drivers both thought the way was clear, and it didn't work out well. (and we know that Ciara did NOT fail to stop at the sign; there is no "quick and simple" explanation for the tragedy.)

I too am concerned for everyone who was there at the terrible scene; Ciara, the other car driver, the tractor driver, anyone else who happened by. I hope they all get peace.

I have a teenage driver in my family and I say a little atheist's prayer every time he take the car out. He's a good kid, like Ciara, he's not going to be drinking or stoned on the road--but that alone does not keep you safe, as we have seen. I sent him some info on the accident and asked him to please please please triple check every time he goes through an intersection--or passes a tractor. It's not about blame. Blame is useless. It's about learning and moving forward, which is all that we who have been lucky enough to survive accidents or near-misses that could easily have killed us can do.   

Bill