Ahh yes...but, she's complaining about you being 166 pounds because she secretly wants 166 pounds of rippling muscles, hence the body-building-bucketloads.
She's also worried about you watching bathing suits, belles and balls, because the doctor has put you on a highly strict 'nuthin' at all' diet, and the very fact that you've mentioned that phrase, twice in one post, means that you're probably shouting it in your sleep, all night long, causing her great alarm and concern.
You just have to face it, she loves ya, Bobs. It's very plain to see and makes perfect sense.