I was at a filkers' meeting this afternoon. I glanced at my calendar & noticed that my ex-quasi-lover's wedding, which I was going to go to, was tomorrow. It had snuck up on me. He had intended to give me a list of people to ask for a ride, but (it turned out, when I got home, found no phone message or email, and called him) he had forgotten about it. He called me back with three numbers. I am waiting for replies to messages to two of them.