Well, that is Moms for ya, we all have one, or had, at least. I am sure she is hurting too, as she won't be able to see her grandkids as much. Just try and remember, Mrzz, that at one point, you loved each other enough to marry, and that was important, too. No real advice here, I am sure you have heard it all and are sick of it. Just keep being both Daddy and The Father.