Beer: Yes, the Bankster is right, if that friend is "Tom", that's the originator of MySpace who will guide you from time to time. When you join, you are automatically added as a friend of Tom. I suggest you keep him...

To clarify...Go to bottom of your page, view all friends, a second page will show up with a box in blue and the word DISPLAY. Choose what you want and then use the "edit" button on the right...
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