Heh heh heh... here is some more advice... heh heh heh.... join a church and get the pastor on your side. Some pastors can really move situations around with a few discreet phone calls.... and you need the support of a community.... and you do NOT have to ascribe to a SINGLE BELIEF to join, participate, exchange support.... (tell him this pastorwife sez so!!!) .... And pastors are SO POPULAR as court witnesses... a nice mainline, non-controversial church.... heh heh heh... see if you can nose out which church the judge goes to, and join that denomination, maybe not the same church but the same denomination... .... heh heh heh....

Oh yeah and do some really really WORTHY volunteer work, like for the Red Cross, we are the best-imaged!!! Or some real kid-oriented cause.... heh heh heh....

~Susan