When a man does these things to children/adults some people say well I thought so, but then they are surpirsed/shocked when a woman does the same thing, so what is the difference about this, and why is that when men/boys det these terrible things done to them some people just say well they'll get over it, because there is hardly anywhere in Britian that they can go but there is a lot of places for women/girls to go , for example there is quite a lot of refuges for women/girls in Scotland and yet for men/boys there is only one refuge for them, is this is not a form of abuse, even though it's tiny amount for men/boys, it's still happening.

So what about men/boys that get abused by their partner/parents what about them, the usual a tap on the wrist and told that they mustn't do it again