Dewey, I think there might be some baggage you have to sort through in addition to looking for a woman whose dating ethos parallels yours.

Jacqui and Virginia nailed it with their remarks.

John commented about going to your high school reunion. That is an idea--and an eye-opener. Those classmate sites are an advertising boondoggle--I looked at one in the "free" mode for a while and was hammered by all of their email solicitations. I agree with him, joining on of those is not necessarily going to offer anything useful. Instead, set up an account on Facebook and make sure your groups include the high school you attended and the year you graduated.

Mudcatters have met and married through this forum, though they generally fall in the category of "regulars." 168 posts in the last nine years doesn't give members a lot of material to work with. If you're looking at Mudcat as a source of inspiration and community, then visiting here more often could be useful.

If you continue to inhabit the lunatic fringe, I don't predict a successful meeting here. But whatever, good luck.

SRS