You know what it is? It's a comfort level. When the mudcat first started, NO ONE used baaaaad language. Then, as we got to know each other online, people became more comfortable with expressing themselves, however it is they express themself. Then, some of us started to meet inperson inreallife, and we became really, really comfortable with expressing outselves. Methinks it's a natural progression. Oh, not the polite to colorful language, but the degree of comfortableness.moonchild